tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post2045931893899733327..comments2023-05-31T09:15:54.220-04:00Comments on Heckers' Happenings: OH NO!!Katrinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07759977707394089882noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-9660339361484777722008-09-27T21:56:00.000-04:002008-09-27T21:56:00.000-04:00Easton did that too last year. It was a good month...Easton did that too last year. It was a good month of both of us crying at drop off and I would come to pick him up and he'd be waiting by the gate ready to go. But I knew he needed it. She needs it too. She's probably freaking out about the birth of Talon and this is her way of dealing. It will pass...you'll survive. You just had a baby. You are and will be in survival mode for a little while. Good luck!The Risdonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01526776294910109180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-77231274016657231512008-09-26T22:45:00.000-04:002008-09-26T22:45:00.000-04:00That is so sad. Poor girl! I wonder if part of it ...That is so sad. Poor girl! I wonder if part of it is having a new baby in the family. Mark went through something similar going to primary when Adeline was born and then again when we moved. A friend from our ward here in Richmond suggested giving Mark something to share with everyone in his class. I talked to his teacher and gave Mark a sheet of stickers with enough for each of his friends. He was so excited to go to Primary that morning and hand them out! Such a change from the kicking and screaming and crying we went through the week before. The next Sunday he told me he didn't need the stickers, he could go on his own. I was amazed at how simple it was and that it actually worked! By the way, Talon is such a cutie! His newborn pics look like my kids at 3 months! : ) Good luck with everything!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13672597049364593942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-35928887910819303602008-09-26T05:01:00.000-04:002008-09-26T05:01:00.000-04:00Oh Katrina - that must be so hard right now!! My ...Oh Katrina - that must be so hard right now!! My heart and prayers go out to you. You are the most wonderful Mom and that Hailey is such a special girl!! That strong little personality will move mountains...keep up the good work!! Love you!!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13797493769373892274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-62530106978979659452008-09-25T20:07:00.000-04:002008-09-25T20:07:00.000-04:00how funny, cause the last week and a half Maddy sa...how funny, cause the last week and a half Maddy says the same thing "I don't want to go to school". luckily we haven't had any crying but she does pretend to be sick some mornings to get out of going...doesn't work. YET she LOVES it when she's there and tells me about her great day when she comes home! weirdo. preschool is only 3 hours a day. but she NEEDS that 3 hours out of the house and with friends. <BR/><BR/>I think you're doing great making her go... she'll get over it soon I'm sure.<BR/><BR/>now go get some sleep!! hee heeJoneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11380689371165177835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-45743972099287528342008-09-25T18:35:00.000-04:002008-09-25T18:35:00.000-04:00It must be the birthday! Ashley is so stubborn to...It must be the birthday! Ashley is so stubborn too!<BR/><BR/>Kids are so sensitive to change. I'm sure having a new baby around is just making the wheels in her head spin a little faster. :)CLAMEShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11485104423589114939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-62969860095702290942008-09-25T09:53:00.000-04:002008-09-25T09:53:00.000-04:00Abby was nervous about going to first grade. She ...Abby was nervous about going to first grade. She kept asking me if I would home school her instead. She would cry about it and one night stayed awake until 5 AM worrying about school. One day, I went into her room, sat on her bed and had a talk with her about school. I told her that her feelings were normal and that I feel nervous when I start new classes too. Then I said something like, "Besides I think you are just playing a trick on me. I think that when I'm not around you do a dance and sing 'I'm going to first grade! Yeah! I'm going to first grade!'"(I did a little jig while singing the song and we both laughed.) Abby shook her head but then as I was leaving the room, I would leave and then suddenly stick my head back in to try to catch her singing and dancing about first grade. So, she started doing the little jig and then we were able to joke about it instead of worry about it. I don't know if this would work for Hailey because each child is different but I think humor often helps situations like these. Good luck, Katrina! It will get better!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15464259171964509492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-34663497791423400642008-09-25T09:27:00.000-04:002008-09-25T09:27:00.000-04:00I don't have any tips or advice for you, but I do ...I don't have any tips or advice for you, but I do sympathize with you. Everymorning, I walk tyler to the bus stop, wait with him and listen to him whimper and whine and cling to me until the bus actually pulls up. Once it gets there, he reluctantly lets go and runs to get on the bus. Everyday he says that school is good or fun, but then when nighttime comes, we spend quite a bit of time listening to him whine and complain about having to go tomorrow and try to come up with excuses why he can't go. And he's in 1st grade now. I firmly believe that they are just trying to get us to give in and let them stay home, and I know that eventually it will go away. I think she's just having a hard time adjusting to the big changes in her life. Give her time and lots of love (which I know you do) and she will be fine. If you need anything (even just someone to talk to) you know where I am.Halliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15916021377521874983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-52619758045826496222008-09-25T02:35:00.000-04:002008-09-25T02:35:00.000-04:00I love your crazy child!!!! Wish i was there to he...I love your crazy child!!!! Wish i was there to help! See you in October adn good luck. You know i have no advice except what you are doing! I'll call yo soon!Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06950479823462757061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1478790444436780020.post-59937988010422033942008-09-24T21:58:00.000-04:002008-09-24T21:58:00.000-04:00Oh Katrina, what a life 3 children can lead huh:) ...Oh Katrina, what a life 3 children can lead huh:) Every child is different...however, when Kollin started preschool I left him crying and screaming, every time reaching out for me! It was heartbreaking. The teachers there told me not to quit. That eventually he would be okay. And after a few minutes (or after he saw his mom sobbing in the parking lot) he was okay. <BR/><BR/>It was the longest month of my life...but after about 5 weeks of it he was so excited to be there and see his friends that he'd forget to say goodbye to his still sobbing mom :)<BR/><BR/>All kids are different, but I think that a few hours a day with someone else entertaining them (especially on the social and educational side) is really good for them! <BR/><BR/>Good luck and hang in there...it'll get better!!! (I LOVE the picture of John carrying her out the door!!!)Ashcraft Adventureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05494315748827569634noreply@blogger.com